Thursday, 25 October 2007

Why is it such a big deal....

Is it necessary that every single action of our's be judged? Everything we do.. Right from typing out a simple mail to what we wear... From the books you read to the people you talk to... From what you say to what you think...
Why?
Why is it that being average just isn't good enough? Not everyone is born a genius, and not everyone who tries to become one becomes.Several people i know are 'below average', but they matter a hell lot to me. Its whats inside you that matters. Its whats in your heart that finally counts. Why is it such a big deal if one uses cliches?
Right now all of you reading this will be scrutinising the English, grammar, spellings, sentence construction of this blog. Gosh, just let it be. You do not judge a person by what they say or write.. There's more to a human being than all that. Why judge them?
Why is one judged when they speak whats on their mind? When they want to talk to someone who matters to them? Why is it such a big deal when one is selfish once in a while?
Why is it such a big deal if i am contradicting myself in everything that i am saying?... It isn't that big a deal.. really, it isn't....

4 comments:

Dr Very Strangelove said...

judging people is a part of society..its grown with us as we evolved.It may be a bad thing but i think it helped us evolve..imagine if all of a sudden people stop judging others..it will be hippie times again..people would stop working etc..peer review and judging keeps us working cause we want to be better than our peers..it helps us move forward..yes agreed too much of it is irritating

Typo Queen said...

judging is necessary, yes no doubt.. but as u said too much of it is a pain... and nowadays u find only 'too much of it'.. the right amount of criticism is lacking....

violetboon said...

True. judging is imp! but what i see is , when u speak to a person, more than just listening to u he marks u, by ur actions, emotions used, words used,expressions etc.But i need to say with all these criticisms around u, u get stronger from within and damm resistant. you contradict ueself u said...tats not wrong ...u do it coz u have realised that ur past action was wrong and u need to modify it...so its needed

Sameen said...

I agree with you Sandhya...
I don't know why there is always a judgement that has to follow every action of yours...why can't it just be...simply...just be..